Almost half of adults do not talk about debts with friends or family

24th October 2022

Almost half (47%) of the Uk population struggle to talk about debt with family and friends, new research by Go.Compare Loans has revealed

The current cost of living crisis has left 41% of UK adults worried about whether they will be able to pay their bills on time. For this reason, financial transparency with loved ones is more important than ever, as hiding debt can add undue stress and burden on a family unit.

Yet, discussing money-related issues is something that many are not comfortable with. A huge 47% of respondents told Go.Compare they won’t openly discuss debts with family or friends. This figure rose to over half (52%) of those aged 55 and over – the highest response – but fell to just 43% and 41% of 18-34 and 35-54-year-olds respectively. This could signify that there is becoming less of a stigma around debt with younger generations, but more still needs to be done.

Recent price rises for essential goods and services mean many households are searching for ways to cut costs. In fact, the comparison site found that 16% of Brits’ views of debt consolidation have changed because of the cost of living crisis, showing that debt and borrowing are prevalent concerns for many.

Go.Compare spoke to Sue Anderson, Head of Media at StepChange Debt Charity, who said: “Debt can be difficult to talk about, especially with the people closest to you. Due to feelings of stigma or worry, thousands of people are dealing with their debt alone, but talking to someone you trust can really help to relieve the burden of going through financial problems on your own.”

“Getting into debt isn’t something to be ashamed of, and many people may experience it at some point in their life. Most of the clients that StepChange help have found themselves in debt because of situations which are outside of their control; life shocks like redundancy or bereavement, and more recently, the cost of living crisis.”

“Research for the FCA this summer found that two-thirds of people who delayed getting help with their debt wish they had taken action sooner – and our own research suggests that people gain wellbeing benefits such as feeling more in control and being able to sleep better after they have taken debt advice.”

Over a third (36%) of survey respondents told the insurance comparison site that they would be willing to take out a debt consolidation loan in order to help reduce monthly outgoings. Just 17% of respondents had used debt consolidation loans in the past.

Matt Sanders, Personal Finance expert at Go.Compare, said “We appreciate how tough it can be to reach out for help or even confide in friends or family when you’re dealing with money struggles. However, we hope that by working with charities like StepChange, we can help to de-stigmatise issues around financial hardship. It’s important that anyone who needs support has access to free, practical and personalised advice before they decide on the best next steps.”

“If you are considering consolidating your debts, we recommend conducting a soft search using our loan comparison tool before you begin applying. This will show you the deals and rates you’ll likely qualify for, helping you to make an informed decision about what works for you.”